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A Fish Out of Water


What would you call a fish that loved being out of water? My first thought would be to say “a dead fish,” but that would ruin the point of this analogy. You see, I’m a guy in a major full of girls…and I LOVE it! The major, that is…not the…nevermind. Many people might consider a guy in a girl-dominated major a fish out of water (or maybe a shark on the hunt in a pond full of minnows…I guess it depends on how you look at it), but I feel right at home learning about how to teach elementary school kids. The truth is, though men are grossly outnumbered in the elementary school setting, they are still just as capable as women. They bring unique enthusiasm into the classroom, and they’re able to influence children in ways that women can’t. Positive male role models are a dying breed, and they are desperately needed in schools. But before I “amaze” the world with my revolutionary ideas about how to save the universe through education, I want to take the opportunity to first share a little bit about who I am and why I decided to pursue a degree in education, particularly at the elementary school level.

Unlike many education majors I know, my desire to become a teacher did not begin in my youth. In fact, it wasn’t until after I served a two year full-time mission for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints that I even considered the idea. There were certainly many experiences throughout my life that influenced this decision, but it was my mission that made the greatest impact. There are so many things I loved about my mission, but the experiences I cherish most are the opportunities I had to teach people about the restored gospel of Jesus Christ and to witness the miraculous changes that this glorious message inspired them to make in their lives.

One of the most memorable of these experiences was with a man named Paul. When I first met Paul he was an atheist. But after a few months of teaching him about the wonders of Heavenly Father’s plan of happiness, he developed a deep faith in God and a desire to pattern his life after the Savior’s. It was very special to see how much his life improved after he began living gospel principles in his life.

I also gleaned from my teaching experiences the fact that truly effective teaching is motivated by genuine love. My ability to reach into people’s hearts and minds was magnified when my efforts were driven by love and by a deep desire to serve them. In my last area on my mission, I taught the Tetro family. They are a sweet family of five, and I grew to love them so much. I wanted them to enjoy the same blessings and happiness with which the gospel of Jesus Christ filled my life. This love is what drove me to challenge them to accept baptism, which they did. A year later, I had the privilege of being with them in the Portland Temple as they were sealed together as a family for time and all eternity. I realized that my love for this wonderful family is in large part why they responded so positively to my instruction, and it inspired changes in their lives that will forever bless them.

When I returned home from my mission, I knew without a doubt that I wanted to continue having meaningful experiences with people through teaching. I have always loved children, so naturally I was drawn to the elementary school age group. As I’ve studied in this program at BYU, I have come to understand that this tender stage of life is the most crucial because it is a period during which children are most impressionable. Children need positive role models in their lives, and they need to be taught early in life that they have great potential. They need to be given the tools necessary to succeed not just in school but more importantly in life. This is what makes a complete education. I may not be a missionary teaching the gospel anymore, but I still have a deeply-rooted love for people, children in particular, that I can use to help them reach their potential.

So am I really a fish out of water? If I am, then I guess I’ll be the first one to learn how to thrive. I’ve never been one to blend in with the crowd anyways. Every pond needs variety, so I’m out to prove that sharks and minnows can learn to appreciate their differences and build upon each other’s strengths. After all, Dory and Bruce learned how to get along pretty well.



Born and raised in Georgia. Sixth of ten chidren. LDS/Mormon. Attending BYU. Studying elementary education. Participate on the track and field team.

6 thoughts on “A Fish Out of Water

  1. Great article, Seth! I really enjoyed learning about what led you to your “calling.” I love you, brother. You are going to make one awesome teacher and touch SOOOO many lives for good. Michael

    1. Thanks, Michael! I appreciate your confidence. I hope you and Brittany will keep reading my posts as you have time. I would love your perspectives on the educational issues I address. Love you guys!

  2. Very nicely written article covering very important topics!! I absolutely agree about the value of and need for more men in elementary education. I also absolutely agree about the value of loving those you teach. I graduated from BYU in ’84 in Elementary Education, taught and did other things for 20+ years, and am now teaching in a women’s prison in northeast Georgia. Just as what you are embarking on is highly meaningful, I feel great about what I’m doing..and how strongly I hope to be an influence for good in these women’s lives, as I am not only here to help them academically, but hope to also help them understand the extreme importance of them being healthier mothers, role models, and supports for their children.

    You may already be familiar with the following, but if not, here is a very meaningful quotation by President Hinkley: “To you men and women of great influence, you who preside in the cities of the nation, to you I say that it will cost far less to reform our schools, to teach the virtues of good citizenship, than it will to go on building and maintaining costly jails and prisons in which to warehouse the many who violate the law. But there is another institution of even greater importance than the schools. It is the home. I believe that no nation can rise higher than the strength of its families.” Gordon B. Hinkley, US Conference of Mayors, Salt Lake City, Utah, Sept 25, 2008

    I wish you the best in your educational pursuits and service to others!!!

  3. Linary, thank you so much for you comments! I was so excited to hear that you live in Georgia; I was born and raised there! (in the Lilburn Stake) Small world. I admire you for the work you’re doing to influence women in prison. That must be very rewarding! It is truly a miracle to witness the change in people’s lives as they apply what they learn. As educators, we have such a unique opportunity to influence people in numerous aspects of their lives. What a blessing! And as President Hinckley said, one of the surest ways to make the world a better place is through proper education at school and in the home. Thank you for your well wishes, and I extend the same to you! 🙂

    P.S. I hope you’ll continue to follow the McKay School’s blog. My fellow bloggers and I would all love your insight and perspective!

  4. Seth, I’ve known you for a while and know that you will be a great influence for good in the lives of many children as well as their parents. The Lord has definitely prepared you for this career, as I believe he has me. It is a wonderful task that we share and I wish you the best.

  5. It is so true–the foundation that we had as children sets the stage for the rest of our lives. It doesn’t mean that those who weren’t blessed with good teachers and a good home can’t be successful, but those who were so fortunate certainly have it easier. I am so thankful for the teachers who have blessed our lives through their service and teaching to Clara. Can’t wait to read more of your work.

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